By Psyche Central
“…In a study of what men and women desire in sexual relationships, Elaine Hatfield and her colleagues (1989) found that the top two desires for married men were for partners to initiate sex more and be more seductive. …”
Read the entire article: http://blogs.psychcentral.com/healing-together/2012/08/improve-your-marriage-by-having-an-affair-with-your-spouse/